13 Secrets You Should Always Keep From Your Partner

“Attraction often grows after getting to know someone,” says Kimberly Hershenson, LMSW. Offhandedly mentioning that it took some time for you to become attracted to your current partner is not amusing or helpful to them. “This information is hurtful and now irrelevant. You are with them now for a reason, so you do not need to share that the attraction eventually grew,” she adds.