13 Secrets You Should Always Keep From Your Partner

“There is no point of reminiscing with your partner about what you miss from your ex or what was better in that relationship,” says DePompo. After all, what will that accomplish? Maybe your ex was a better cook, planned better dates, or shared your interest in a certain hobby, but your past relationship ended for a reason, so let it go. “Time is better spent taking what you have learned and enjoyed and building on it where you can in this relationship,” DePompo notes.