Don’t say these things to men!
They are wearing masks in discomfort and depression so that others do not know their secret. But if you want to have a happy and successful relationship, you have to make sure that he shares his feelings with you. Saying "Man," gives you a sense of insecurity to your lifelong husband, which makes him self-censorship as well. In fact, he thinks that crying, aching or upsetting will diminish your masculine power in your eyes.